Top 5 Sex Positions for Girl-on-Girl Pleasure

When it comes to girl-on-girl intimacy, the beauty lies in the variety of ways to connect, explore, and heighten pleasure between two women. Whether you're in a long-term relationship with another woman or just beginning to explore sapphic sex, understanding different positions can open up new levels of sensuality, arousal, and emotional closeness. This guide offers five of the most erotic, deeply satisfying, and emotionally connective sex positions tailored for women loving women. Let’s dive into the passion and get real about what feels amazing — body to body, mind to mind.

1. Scissoring (Tribadism)

How to Do It: Start by lying on your sides, facing each other. Bring one leg over your partner’s opposite leg so your bodies form an X shape. Scoot in until your pussies are pressed together. You’ll want to adjust your hips to line up just right — you’ll feel it when it clicks. Use your hands on each other’s hips to guide and control the movement. Start with soft, slow grinding and build up rhythm as you both start moaning and breathing deeper.

It’s all about how your clits slide and rub together, how warm and wet it gets between you. Stay close, touch her face, kiss her neck, keep the connection alive through your hands, your voice, and your hips.

Why It Works: This position brings your most sensitive parts in perfect contact. The clit-to-clit friction can be intensely pleasurable. And the body-to-body connection — looking in each other’s eyes, holding each other — makes it as emotional as it is erotic.

Tips:

• Use lube to keep things smooth and extra slippery.
• Take breaks to kiss, adjust, and tease.
• Perfect for couples who want passion and visual intimacy.

Emotional Intimacy Level: Very high — this position is a true blend of heart and heat.

2. Face Sitting (Queening)

How to Do It: Have one partner lie on her back with her head resting on a pillow. The other straddles her face, slowly lowering her pussy onto her partner’s mouth. Start slow — hover and tease her lips before settling in. Rock your hips, grind on her tongue, and let your moans guide her.

You can look down, meet her eyes, run your fingers through her hair. Or close your eyes and just feel everything she’s doing to you — tongue on clit, lips on folds, the vibration of her moans making your whole body twitch.

Why It Works: The partner on top gets full control of the depth and pace, while the one on bottom gets to savor every inch. It’s sexy, powerful, and makes oral even more intense.

Tips:

• Communicate — ask if pressure is okay and how deep to go.
• Try switching roles halfway through for balance.
• Don’t forget to breathe — take breaks, kiss, then go again.

Emotional Intimacy Level: High — there’s a raw honesty and closeness in giving and receiving like this.

3. The Strap-On Ride (Cowgirl Style)

How to Do It: One woman wears a strap-on while lying on her back. The other straddles her slowly, guiding the dildo into her pussy. Start shallow, then sink in deeper, setting a rhythm that feels just right. As the rider, you’re in control — grinding, bouncing, circling your hips, using her body to support your own.

You can hold hands, lean in to kiss, or grip her thighs as you ride. It’s all about what makes you feel sexy, powerful, and totally satisfied. The partner on the bottom can grab your waist and thrust a little too, turning up the heat.

Why It Works: The rider controls the angle and pressure of penetration. The giver gets to enjoy watching and feeling their lover lose themselves in pleasure. It’s a powerful dynamic, emotionally and sexually.

Tips:

• Choose a dildo that feels good for both of you.
• Use lube, especially if you’re new to penetration.
• Add nipple play or a vibrator for extra stimulation.

Emotional Intimacy Level: High — the visual, physical, and emotional feedback in this position is everything.

4. The Lazy Scissor

How to Do It: Lie down comfortably with one partner on her back and the other turning slightly perpendicular, hooking one leg over. This gives a gentle scissoring effect without needing much effort. Your pussies press together softly, and you can rock your hips slowly.

This is the kind of position where time feels like it disappears. Your bodies are touching everywhere — legs, stomachs, breasts. Hands can wander, lips can find each other, and there’s nothing rushed about it. It’s perfect for long, lazy afternoons when you want to make love, not just have sex.

Why It Works: It’s intimate and sensual without requiring flexibility or strength. It keeps you close and connected, while your clits enjoy the soft, wet grind.

Tips:

• Great for cuddling and kissing while you play.
• Use slow movements and talk about how it feels.
• Add a pillow under one partner’s hips to help with alignment.

Emotional Intimacy Level: Very high — perfect for emotional connection and relaxed, loving sex.

5. Oral Pleasure in the 69 Position

How to Do It: Lie head-to-toe with your lover. One on top, one below — or both on your sides. Position yourselves so each mouth has access to the other’s pussy. Start slow. Kiss around her thighs. Breathe her in. Let your tongue explore before diving in.

As she starts licking you too, it becomes a beautiful loop of pleasure. You’ll feel every movement she makes on your clit while you do the same to her. Moans get louder. Hips roll. Hands grab. It’s messy, wet, raw — and absolutely delicious.

Why It Works: Both of you are giving and receiving pleasure at the same time. There’s a rhythm to it — a back-and-forth that builds the heat quickly. When you’re both turned on, it becomes overwhelming in the best way.

Tips:

• Keep hands busy on thighs, butt, or breasts.
• Mix soft licks with firm pressure — vary your technique.
• Pause to breathe, moan, and come back for more.

Emotional Intimacy Level: Moderate to high — hot, primal, and beautifully mutual.

A Sensual Memory: Winter Cabin by the Fire

We had the whole weekend to ourselves. Just the two of us in a tiny log cabin tucked away in the snow. There was no one around for miles. We had wine, thick blankets, and a roaring fireplace. The world outside was frozen, but inside? We were on fire.

She looked at me with that smirk I love, and I knew exactly what she wanted. She crawled into my lap and kissed me — deep, slow, with little moans between each kiss. Her hands slid under my sweater, and I gasped when her fingers brushed over my nipples. I moaned into her mouth, already aching for her.

We peeled off our clothes slowly, giggling, teasing, kissing. The firelight made her skin glow, and I couldn’t stop touching her. Her pussy was already wet when I slid my fingers down, and her moans got louder as I kissed my way between her thighs.

We ended up on the thick rug, legs tangled, our bodies grinding together in a lazy scissor. She moaned every time our clits touched, her voice getting breathy and desperate. I matched her rhythm, both of us rocking, sliding, letting the pleasure build.

Her nails dug into my back. My head tilted back. And when we came, we did it together — loud, soaking, clenching, gasping. We didn’t stop. We kissed, moaned, kept grinding through the aftershocks until we were completely spent.

We lay there in the glow, sweaty and smiling. Wrapped up in each other. It was quiet except for the fire crackling and our breath slowly calming. I kissed her again. She whispered, "That was everything."

And it was.

Final Thoughts: Explore, Play, Connect

Girl-on-girl sex is such a deeply rich and sensual experience. It’s not just about technique — it’s about curiosity, communication, and connection. These positions are just a starting point. The real magic happens when you listen to each other’s breath, follow your partner’s moans, and explore without pressure.

Try different positions. Talk about what you liked after. Keep things light, loving, and full of play. And most importantly — moan often and loudly. Let go. Be present. Make every moment count.